Men spank their lovers

I really liked him and thought that he was "the one". I imagined him looking at the strap and the riding whip, thinking about how each would feel. This is where I become confused. After a few more strokes, he lost the struggle again, clenching, his buttocks quivering in pain from the cane stroke. And who knows… maybe it will help the guy keep a decent tempo too? Now lets have dinner. At the time, the woman played it up herself, but eventually the humiliation got to her.

A few playful swats during sex seem fun, while serious spankings seem damaged and perverse. Make sure she is comfortable Use your hand. Drinks in hand, Emily and I began meeting people. Find out the ways they like to get spanked — full hand contact or maybe with the use of props — find out what blows their minds. For more than 20 years I thought there was something wrong with me. If you start spanking her like a maniac you could quickly turn her off spanking forever, and no amount of begging or pleading will make her change her mind.

But as adults, why does spanking seem, well, hot? I am accessing this site for the purpose of accessing information for my own personal use, and I will not share this information with those who would not be covered by this agreement. And they were very strict: If this happens, great, but try not to go overboard. Instead, try to bring up the subject in a more indirect way or better yet, by letting her start the conversation.